Deepest Fear

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
Marianne Williamson, Return to Love

The first time I heard this quote was towards the end of the film Coach Carter and I had to go out and find it. I came across the original text in my search. It has profound meaning for me, especially right now, because I am trying to find a way to tap into the divine within myself, stop being my own worst enemy, reach into my soul and find my true potential. I am searching for that potential, as a parent, a partner, a lover, a daughter, a sister, a friend and a citizen of the world. I don't want to make any fundamental changes to who I am, I just want to figure out how to become more myself everday. I am choosing to have a positive impact on my own life in a very deliberate way so that I can have that same affect on others. From my perspective, this is the essence of what Marianne Williamson's is saying.

I think this kind of searching is part and parcel of personal evolution. Unfortunately, it is usually the diversity in life that leads us to the greatest growth. I am fond of saying that diamonds are formed under tremendous pressure. When we endure loss and face challenges, life is forcing us to develop in ways we haven't expected, anticipated or prepared for, but which are necessary to move on to the next level in our lives. I feel that life is refining and reshaping me to make the many facets of ME even more brilliant than they already are. The pressure on the coal is what makes it beautiful; without it all you have is an ugly brown rock.

At the same time as I am sure this is the case, I am lacking in direction. I am facing major life changes and I feel lost. Some of those changes are ones I need to make, have needed to make for some time others are coming whether I want them to or not and I need to prepare. At most junctures, I am controlled by my 'deepest fear' and I want to learn to step beyond it into the abundance I know my life has to offer.

I know I am not the only person who has found themselves standing at this crossroads. I know many have been here before me, many are right here with me and many will stand at the crossroads after me. No two of us will have the same experience. No two of us will go off in the same direction but all of us, hopefully, will find exactly the right path for ourselves through deep, meaningful reflection combined with a little dumb luck and alot of trial and error.

Goddess Bless me (and anyone else at the same place) on this necessary journey. It will be very interesting to share it with the readers of my blog.