SELF-ACTUALIZATION was defined by psychologist, Abraham Maslow, as "the desire for self-fulfillment, namely the tendency for him [the individual] to become actualized in what he is potentially. This tendency might be phrased as the desire to become more and more of what one is, to become everything that one is capable of becoming." Maslow couches his definition in terms of his hierarchy of needs which posits that "basic needs [food, shelter, warmth, security, sense of belonging]" must be met before self-actualization can be accomplished. Maslow further suggests that even when these needs are adequately provided few ever reach the level of self-actualization to which he refers. (Ref Wikipedia article: Self-actualization).
In simpler terms, Dictionary.com defines self-actualization as "the achievement of one's full potential through creativity, independence, spontaneity, and a grasp of the real world." This definition fits more easily into the focus of this blog entry (although we'll bring Maslow and his theories back into play in a little bit). When I first started writing this blog, the purpose I had in mind was more in line with Dictionary.com than with Maslow. I started with the intent of searching for my 'whole' or 'authentic' self, to get a better grasp on who I am and what my full potential in life might be. As usual, before I began writing, I went back and re-read my previous entries and honestly find that in the 11 years since I started writing this blog, I seem to have made little progress in that direction. My writings are all interesting and indivually insightful but, as a whole, I feel they represent little movement towards the ultimate goal, to be ACTUALIZED.
This brings me back to Maslow. Truth is, despite my occasional musings, I have been so involved in the basic needs of my life that I have had little time to devote to finding my 'true self'. I am too engaged in the day-to-day business of making money, paying bills, raising kids and the other simple acts of living we commit daily to engage in philsophical discussion or musings, even if they are just with myself. Funny thing is, I think this blog might have better served its purpose if I was more engaged in it on a day-to-day basis.
Now is the time when I say I'm going to write more often, spend more time, post these daily musings no matter whether they are read by others or not. Truth is, I really need the help and encouragement of my friends and family in this. I need to know that someone out there is reading this. Commentary from readers simulates dialogue and lets me know that someone is listening. So, for those of you that are interested, please drop me a note, or post a comment to let me know that you are out there. For my part, I will do my best to write often enough to keep you interested and, hopefully, engaged.
Peace and Blessings.
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